By Rebecca Fraser-Thill
So many of my coaching clients over the years have been in the sorts of toxic cultures Adam Grant describes below, most often in the tri-state area (greater NYC) area where I grew up and this approach to living is highly normalized. I broke free and moved to Maine 18 years ago, but it has taken many years (decades?) to “detox” from the idea that hustle = worth, that productivity = value, that exhaustion = status.
Unfortunately far too many clients don’t break free because they are *TOO BUSY* to continue the coaching process they began in a moment of desperate clarity (when do intake forms typically come in from clients in toxic work cultures? Between midnight and 3am their time…).
There is a better way to live and work. Worth is within us. Health - of all types - is a necessity. Full living is the only way to live. Not later. Not in retirement. Now.